Saturday, 27 January 2018

Karen's Story

The goal of a yoni massage isn’t necessarily to have an orgasm, often times women can get very emotional during and/or after the massage because of what is coming up for them.
Karen was fortunate not to have any history of sexual abuse, but I would say her sensuality has been suppressed and that she is now just beginning to discover the potential of owning her own sexuality.
During our beginning talk, she remembered the questions she had asked by email and didn't feel the need to ask them again, so I asked her to tell me a little about how she felt today here with me. She said this was her first yoni massage and the reason she was here was because she had became aware of her fear and resistance to sexuality and wanted to begin breaking down those walls.

We sat together in silence for a minute and I made my overall intention for the session of clearing her energy lines and repairing her Chakra. I noticed as soon as she arrived how her Aura was broken in places.

Now it was time to begin the massage, I left the room as she undressed and climbed onto the mat face down. I returned and kneeing at her head, my hands resting gently on her shoulders, began breathing exercises and explaining how she must stay in the moment. We shared this time as I created a safe place for her in case she had any traumas rising during the session.

Once I was happy Karen was in the right headspace I began the slow, sensual massage, using plenty of warm oil to slide over skin, creating the feelings and pleasure to carry us forward. After about 45 minutes I asked her to turn over onto her front. All the time I reminded her to focus on the moment. As the massage became more intimate and I was massaging her breasts she seemed a little unsure, but with slow well oiled strokes she soon totally relaxed into the pleasure. 

Karen had said after the session she wanted to write about her experiences, so from here it makes
 sense if she tells the story.

Karen's Story
I had felt a little odd when Paul started to massage my breasts, but being in the moment I was able to relax and enjoy the wonderful sensations. It felt odd to simply be laying back receiving pleasure which is quite tricky, but Paul's encouragement and reminders of my breathing it soon simply became a wave of pleasure. Now we’re moving towards my yoni. I started to think to myself, “Okay, here we go.” as I kept being reminded to focus on my breath.

Paul began by massaging the outside of my yoni, noting that it was a healthy yoni, without knots or tension (I felt good about that—I’m not going to lie), this was accompanied by massaging my thighs, stomach and breasts as well.

He then asked me to contract my yoni muscles (Kegel exercises, anyone?) and once I released, he confirmed he was about to penetrate, I nodded and his fingers entered my yoni. Now, you may be asking if this was at all weird, at any moment and to be honest, no! Trust me, I was waiting for it be uncomfortable. Then he began by hitting certain pressure points within my yoni, which were not painful, but not pleasurable, there was definitely tension and just like any massage he began to release the pressure.

Once the pressure points were done, he went to different areas of my yoni, G spot, A spot, cervix.
There were certain areas that were more pleasurable than others and once he hit the sensitive A spot, the focus stayed there. Now I must say, going into this, I was not expecting to have an orgasm, I thought it would help release some tension, but that I was filled with too much tension to really let go and experience an orgasm.

Well, I had an orgasm and it was pretty amazing. I imploded the orgasm versus having an explosive orgasm, meaning instead of releasing the energy out, I kept it within my body, for me that equalled a full body orgasm. My body shook uncontrollably, I laughed and cried all at the same time, Paul's free hand pressing down on my hips so I had the full force and the waves vibrated through me again and again.

I then laid there for about 10 minutes and allowed the energy to subside. Paul waited until I was ready. I sat in front of Paul and we simply looked at each other Paul reminding me I am worthy to fully enjoy sex, I am empowered to accept pleasure, I am able to surrender to totally losing control, and I am to know I am sexy! After holding his hands for a few minutes I was ready to dress.
Once I was dressed I said, “thank you” to Paul and was on my way.

There was no awkwardness at all, and I felt totally comfortable speaking with him afterward. To me, yoni massage is a proper therapy and there was no uncomfortable energy attached to the experience. I am happy I did it, it allowed me to become aware of my sexuality and begin to give it some attention.
This is just the beginning, with my sexuality being ignored for so long, I really have to continue giving myself and my sexuality the attention it deserves.

So, I now begin to step into and discover yet another aspect of myself, my sensual and sexual self.

[Just a note to say since writing Karen has enjoyed a further session getting closer to who she really is sexually.  Paul]

Sunday, 7 May 2017

Preparing the body, mind and spirit to experience a Yoni Massage

To prepare for a Yoni massage it is important to create a sacred space for it to take place, a safe haven to explore and discover the sacredness of the Yoni.

Bathe first, adding oils, and soak the skin while letting go of everything that has been spinning around in the mind. Do not rush this cleansing time. Use it as a chance to really let go and allow the muscles to relax while the mind slows right down and clears the way for the sensual sexual energy to flow through the body.

Enjoying warm oil yoni massage
Light candles in the bedroom, play soft sensual music in the background, create a soft setting with blankets and pillows to support and relax into and also communicate with one another, if not with words, with loving action.

Tantra is all about surrendering the mind and body to allow it to embrace a slow, erotic, artful arousal, gently teasing and building up tension and letting go of all inhibitions and connecting with your core.

I will show you how to pay attention to each breath, inhale and exhale and focus only on the here and now. Thoughts will come and go, allow them to. Only pay attention to the connection and the sensations that are happening within the body and the mind, remembering the goal is not to achieve an orgasm, the orgasm will likely happen, although it is not something to focus on.

After the initial talk and the client is laying face down on the massage table my hands will have been gently resting on their shoulders beginning the contact between giver and receiver. Starting to create that sacred space that from now on we will be sharing. They will then be massaged from head to toe, including a foot and head massage. Your entire body will be massaged, leaving nothing untouched and stimulating your many erogenous zones, including light touches between your thighs occasionally lightly brushing against your vagina. Warm oils will give you new sensations to experience and feeling the warm oils between your buttocks and thighs start to slowly stimulate the sacred space. This can last 30 to 40 minutes, every subject is different and responds in their own way.

After about 30 to 40 minutes I then ask the cleint to turn over so they are on their back, and here
Thinking about the pleasure of a Yoni Massage
some clients feel vulnerable and in that case a soft cloth can be used as a cover, but will be gently removed as the massage progresses. The massage of your front begins again from head to toe with slow strokes and warm oils. Your breast, hips, lower tummy, inner thighs all receive my attention again. One of the most comfortable positions to experience a Yoni massage is for the female to lie on her back, legs open, bent at the knees. A pillow can also be placed under the hips to tilt them slightly.

It is quite normal for the one receiving the massage to go into a trance like state although this should not be forced, but if achieved may heighten the intensity and pleasure of the experience.

The Yoni massage will only begin when the body is fully relaxed and all tension has been released.
Permission is always asked before proceeding.

Read how the session works from beginning to end on my website

Harry Spencer

Women are empowered when they worship, own and embrace their sexuality.

The connection with your sexual self is the thing that transforms you from female into brilliant Goddess and it is likewise what stirs your body to an array of powerful and healing sensations.

In it's fundamental aspect a Yoni massage is an internal massage of the vagina that is a part of the exotic Tantric experience. It is a full mind, body and soul encounter; it is enabling, mending and arousing and it is a celebration of all that you are as woman.

The massage is significantly more a mental and profound experience than it is physical, consequently it is experienced differently depending upon the emotional and mental association at the time. It is a pleasurable blessing that should be given slowly as it is a deep expression of appreciation.

Our physical, spiritual and emotional health are all connected to our sexual organs, therefore, if there are any blockages due to toxins, our life force also known as sexual energy cannot travel freely through the body.

During a Yoni massage blockages are discharged, poisons are broken down and the blood flow is expanded to the sexual organs. Female ejaculation often happens amid the massage, which encourages the release of any negative feelings and furthermore it clears the sacred space to permit a more profound level of sexual joy to be enoy.

While the massage is occurring, knots that hold negative feeling are felt as little blockages in the surface, which can be relaxed and separated and more profound tangles can likewise be diffused with
Relax into pleasure with Yoni Massage
a firmer massage at a greater depth.

Emotional, physical, and mental healing happens amid the Yoni session. Every past hurt can be discharged including frustration, guilt, shame, abuse, disappointments and more.

To make it the truly memorable experience it should be, it is better to unwind into it and enable it to happen naturally, and treat it as a new experience, so there is no attachment to the result. Appreciate every minute and consider it to be an otherworldly pilgrimage, without thinking ahead and furthermore without adding any pressure or having any perceived.

The Yoni experience is a way to a deep, enriching connection, and also a path to spiritual awareness and enlightenment.

Before the Yoni massage takes place, I recommend connecting with your inner-Goddess and recognising your beauty, divine strength and the powerful aspects of the femininity.

These are things I assit you with during the pre meeting, allowing you to truly let go.

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Harry Spencer

Rise of the 'yoni' massage: How women are paying up to £300 for the intimate treatment that could help them to have better sex!

Deep massage has for a long time been known to help ease indications of stress and help us feel more chilled - be that as it may, another craze is promoting a marginally more intimate session.

The "yoni" is accessible solely to ladies as the private massage carried out by a specialist professional - yet essentially a stranger - who concentrates the final part of the session solely on the vagina.

Yoni massage
 Although many accomplish a climax during the massage, which can cost up to £300 a session, the fundamental concentration of the "ritual" is realising what feels good, which could prompt better sex.

In spite of the fact that the session - which are accessible in the UK, US and Australia - focuses on discovering pleasure, the yoni massage is said to have been powerful in helping ladies adapt to trauma and additionally getting over a separation.

It starts with receivers encountering a full body massage keeping in mind the end goal is to relax them ahead of the main event with erogenous zones, for example, their bosoms being touched.

A specialist will then massage the clients labia while they work on breathing excersises. The masseur may also venture inside the vagina to search out any "tight" spots with the aim to discharge the tension.

"Yoni" originates from the sanskrit word for vulva which is the region that is for the most part massaged during the session.

Isis Phoenix, a physical sexologist who has practical experience in yoni massage in the US, says welcoming effectively a stranger to touch a woman's vagina can energize a restorative response.

She revealed to Women's Health: 'A yoni massage is a function where a lady is invited to seize touch on her vulva.

'When we welcome touch, there's an opportunity to cleanse a a sense of energy.'

The therapist added that the experience doesn't have to be an intrusive one. She continued: 'It can go as far as women want it to go. She may just want her yoni held.'

Despite the fact that a climax is not the point of the session Isis concedes that she wants to urge her customers to rediscover their erogenous zones.

She added: 'The biggest benefit is that they feel a sense of embodied wisdom of what gives them pleasure,'

Mangala Holland, from Mystic Sex, is a tantra instructor principally in Australia and the US. She offers ladies classes on yoni massage.

'Women - you don't need to "wait to find the right man" to explore Tantra. Nothing helped me evolve my femininity and my sexuality faster than receiving Tantric yoni massages.
'I released blockages, accessed cervical and g-spot orgasms, healed old wounds and frustrations and found the source of my feminine power.

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Harry Spencer